Born and raised in Berkeley, California, I
spent my younger years juggling school, gymnastics, and skiing. Gymnastics gave
me a great platform for physical fitness and overall body awareness, for which
I’ll forever be grateful. However after 5 hours a day, 5 days a week for five
years, I had had enough of the hairspray-slicked back hair, the wedgies my
leotards gave me, the bloody rips I got on my hands from the uneven bars, the
cheesy floor routine music, being stretched in ways that should not be humanly possible,
getting yelled at for having too much of a sway back, and well, just getting
yelled at in general, and splitting the beam (which if you don’t know what this
means, it essentially is when your foot slips as little as a quarter inch too
far to the left or right and before you can do anything about it, you’re legs
are on either side of the balance beam and your pelvic bone is screaming bloody
murder). I think the most wearing part of this sport, however, and what really
got me thinking – is this really how I want to spend my life – was the constant
anxiety I felt from my coaches, the judges, and even my teammates for never
being perfect enough, and the ensuing pressure that weighed on me every time I
stepped foot in a gymnasium. At this point in my young career, I knew I was no
longer doing it for myself and had entirely lost my passion for the sport. So,
at age 11, just after having been moved up to Level 7, I was a gymnastics
retiree. Despite my young age, I had grown up a great deal from the whole process.
It had left me with a clear vision of what made me clique (and not clique) as
not only an athlete, but as a human being. Like my mom has always said to me,
when one door closes, another one opens. In this case, she couldn’t have been
more spot on.
The truth is, the door to skiing had always been open in my family. However, I
never truly embraced this fact until I no longer had to feel ashamed for doing
it…thanks to my gymnastics coaches for guilt tripping me into feeling bad about
missing practice on the weekends. Sometimes I would put makeup on to cover up
the goggle tan that I had acquired over the weekend to help minimize the brow
beating I would get once back in the gym. That being said, much of my younger
years as a skier was spent fretting over what my oppressive gym coaches were
thinking rather than 100% living in the moment while ripping around Squaw
Valley with all of my fellow Mighty Mighters. So once I called it quits on
gymnastics, it was like I saw skiing in a whole new light and developed a
newfound love for it. There was no judging, no scoring, no pressure. The only
thing that mattered at Squaw was how fast you could get down the mountain.
Although still quite young, I knew right then and there that skiing was my
sport.
After all, it was my family’s sport. Since
my grandparents built a house in Squaw after the 1960 Winter Olympic Games were
held there, there was every reason to take advantage of it. It was a no brainer
then that my dad, who grew up ski racing at Squaw, and my mom, who grew up ski
racing at Stratton Mountain in Vermont, would pass along their passion for
skiing on to my sister and me. They put us both on skis at the age of 2 and
started us in Squaw Valley’s Mighty Mite program at the age of 4. Every weekend
from December to April (and I mean every weekend), the four of us would
get in the car once my dad got home from work on Friday night, make the three
hour drive to our Squaw home, wake up in time Saturday morning to meet my
Mighty Mites group at 8:30, take over the mountain until 2:30 (along with 2-3
breaks at the cookie shop depending on the day), ski with my parents from 2:30
to closing, and make the three hour drive back to Berkeley Sunday night. I
think it is fair to say that my family was professional Weekend Warriors.
Looking back on these years, I missed a lot of birthday parties, a lot of
school events, and a lot of social time in general, but I wouldn’t have traded
it for anything.
And here I am today, feeling the same way: no regrets! I am living the life I
want to lead and loving it. Sure, I’ve had some tough times in the last few
years, (physically and mentally), but who hasn’t? It’s part of life and
especially a life full of high expectations, high energy, and high risk. All
you can do is be the best you can be and always strive to be better.
I HAVE CHILLS remembering the very details, and watching you BLOSSOM as skiing, and ski racing unfolded. Well done Foreste! LOVE YOU, Mom
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